Monday, July 5, 2010

Milestones and Memories

Two months have gone by since I posted last, and that means that a tremendous amount has happened in the life of the Dueck 6. For starters, we now have an official granite welcome sign, made as a Mother's Day present for Lois. Of course you wouldn't know it is granite because of the paint(!), but it is still special, with each of us having painted one of the rocks, and Lois adding the lettering, all in hopes of welcoming those who come by to our place.

The beginning of June saw us as a family heading to Baudette, MN for my second Willy Walleye 5km race. It was fun to be cheered on by the family, and it must of helped, as I ran my fastest time of 23:53, good enough for 2nd place in the 30-39 year old men category. One of the fun parts of the day was racing with the Flying Friesens, a family from church. Ian, the young guy in the picture was first of the 89 runners in the race, Heidi won her age category, and my friend Wes was tops in the Old Guy (50+) category! I have tried to convince some of my kids to come run, but I don't know if it will happen, and doubt we will be as fast as our friends.

June 13 was a special day for Caleb as he got baptized in the Rainy River!!!! It was okay weather, not raining, a little cool. It was a special time for Caleb and two other youths who also got baptized, and it was a blessing for me to be able to go over scriptures with him in classes at church and be the one baptizing him. We celebrated with Grandma Hiebert, Auntie Elaine, Julie (MCC exchange from Russia), and two friends from Caleb's school. We invited their families to join us, one did. We had a watermelon and rollkuchen party with dessert too at the picnic shelter in Emo. We presented Caleb with a very manly cross chain that God gave us at a great deal while celebrating our anniversary in Bemidji. Continue to pray for Caleb as he strives to follow God in everyday life. He truly loves Jesus, and wants to follow him.

Caleb has also started a lawn-cutting business. He cuts three lawns already other than doing his turn on ours:the church's and two neighbours from the parsonage in town. He bought his own lawn mower with electric start from the local Husqvarna dealer (who attends our church), and it was very excited to see him work out a payment plan for it, which included mowing part of the dealerships lawn! We are proud of his hard working attitude and that he plans to have the mower paid off by fall. (We are also thankful that we don't have to start the mower for him anymore!)

A major milestone for Lorianne happened on June 17 as she graduated from Grade 8 (for our Manitoba friends, let me inform you that here in Ontario schools go from K - Gr 8, and then then High School is from 9 - 12). It was a special day for Lorianne as she celebrated with her friends from Donald Young School. She was chosen as one of the Valedictorian speakers, and really enjoyed writing her speech and did a great job of presenting it.

Lorianne enjoys school, and giving leadership and encouragement in the classroom. God has blessed her with a lot of skills, as well as solid Christian character, and for that we are very thankful. Her efforts at school were rewarded as she was presented with the highest academic award for a female, and she also received the Ontario Principal's Award together with Derek (who was also her co-valedictorian).

Joseph enjoyed playing soccer again this year, as did Stephen and Lorianne (Caleb begged us not to make him play, offering to bike the 2 miles to and from the field instead, which he often did). It was a bit tougher for Joe, as he was in the Gr 3-5 age group, and didn't get a lot of shots on goal. It did however give him a chance to get rid of energy, which he has lots of! He easily keeps up with Lois on their 8 mile bike ride which they often do (by the way, that is the distance around our block!).

Stephen continues to be our creative one. He suggested cutting crosses into the Rollkuchen for Caleb's baptism: it worked great - we had hot cross rollkuchen for the party! He loves playing LEGO, spending hours upstairs in our rec room during the day. He liked being on a soccer team with a friend from school, and enjoyed having me as his coach (Lois said he tried harder with me giving encouragement from the sidelines). He battled his way through the school year, having to daily choose to make right choices and be different than those around him. We pray for him lots, as he struggles to live as a Christian. He often shares at night about how he gets thoughts and words in his head from school that he has to fight against, and that he wonders if he is good enough for Jesus. As parents (and even some of the older kids) we try to just remind him of the Gospel - that we aren't good enough, but Jesus is, and his work on the cross is our only hope for acceptance before God. Now that it is summer, we are praying that Stephen can just have fun being a kid, and not have to worry so much about what others think of him, or how he needs to behave to fit in.

Lois is leading the preschool program at the local VBS, serving together with ladies from the Christian Reformed church that is hosting the VBS. She is excited to work together with 3-4 youth (including Lorianne) and train them up to tell Bible Stories, help lead a small group and be part of a ministry team. God is giving her much wisdom on this adventure. VBS is July 19-23rd, and she would appreciate your prayers.

Lois is thrilled that our garden is all planted and made sure we even planted an apple tree in honor of our anniversary and our first summer living at 583 George Rd. She spends a lot of time going for walks with different ladies from church and is thankful for the quiet life that is possible living in the country. She is truly an amazing woman, and does a great job of making sure our household runs smoothly. She also was really wanted to go camping this June, and so headed out for some camping and a trip to Niagara Falls with our children before meeting up with me at my sister's place in Port Perry, north of Toronto (I flew in while she drove the 20+ hours over 5 days). More on that trip later.

I had a chance to go fishing four times in June, which means that life is definitely slowing down. The boys and I went fishing off the Emo dock and Caleb was the fisherman of the evening. The next time was with a pastor friend from Thunder Bay who is mentoring me. We met to pray, talk, and fish together 1/2 way between Emo and Thunder Bay. Then my dad came up for our annual Father's day fishing trip. We actually turned it into two trips. One was a leisurely Sunday evening paddle in the canoe we have had since our Tadoule Lake days, and then we spent all Tuesday with a friend from church who took us up to the beautiful and famous Pipestone Lake. Dad out fished me on Sunday, but I caught the most walleye on Tuesday!

Another fun part of the spring has been working at cutting logs up for firewood. I enjoy the productive feeling that comes from cutting up a tree, and the kids do a great job of stacking up the wood. It is amazing what 6 people can accomplish when they work together!

We are now entering our third summer in NW Ontario, and with God's help it will be our most enjoyable one yet. With our first summer spent moving, our second summer spent restocking our life and designing and building a house, this year should be very different, as we are settled, have what we need in terms of stuff, are have as a main agenda to just enjoy what we God has blessed us with (ie: have fun!). Lois is very thankful for blueberries growing on our hill, the kids are happy to be done school, and I am looking forward to having a pastoral intern that I can work together with at CBC for the next couple of months. God is good, he is faithful in keeping his promises, and for that we are grateful.


Sue-Ann said...

Hi guys, Sue-Ann Here. So glad to see everything is going well. I drove through Emo a couple of weeks ago and tried to figure out where you were but couldn't. I am going to look at a house out that way around the 26th and staying in Fort Frances for a week after that and would love to see you guys. So because I don't have your email address here's mine.

Cat said...

Lovely entries! I enjoyed reading them all! What a busy year it's been for you - a busy 3 years, really. I feel for Stephen and his struggles at school - welcome to life, huh? Living your faith is hard. Shouldn't be but it is. That's when you grow, I think. Just thinking of baby chicks waiting to be born. It's how the chick gets out of it's shell - it has to struggle. If it didn't struggle to break free, it would just stay put and die.

I can't believe your daughter wanted to see that exhibit on the Body but then again, my boys thought it would be cool.

Congratuations to Caleb on his baptism - having Dad baptize you is pretty special (and way a river!)

Awesome that all four of your kids got to experience all the Lakes - maybe I should put that on my Bucket list, too!

Have a lovely summer! I'm heading to Vietnam with friends and back just in time for school!

Keep healthy, keep safe, keep enjoying life and keep the faith!